Berkeley College in New York
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Is cheating OK in college?? Do you really expect to be with your high school sweetheart from back home, when the person next door is just so yummy?? Or what if you live in the same city, just go to different schools, Do you cheat on the weekends you don't see each other and not tell?? Be honest, How OK is cheating in college??
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University of Texas at Austin
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Posted on
Jul 8, 2008 at 7:04pm by
Jess
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Santa Barbara City College
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Posted on
Jul 8, 2008 at 7:16pm by
Kristy
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Texas State University-San Marcos
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Posted on
Jul 8, 2008 at 7:38pm by
Bolix
That said I have never actually cheated on anyone. But I HAVE been the "other guy" and I'm not gonna lie, it was fucking awesome and I would totally do it again and fully intend to. Ranks up there in excitement with public sex for sure. I figure if a girl is gonna cheat with someone it might as well be me getting my dick wet.
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Absolutely not okay ever.
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Ohio State University-Main Campus
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get this: my first kiss was me being the "other girl!" it was ridiculous and kind of set the tone for the rest of my ridiculous love life.
but i've never reeeaaallllllyyy cheated on any of my boyfriends... the one kinda sorta exception was on this guy that was pretty much over anyway, but we hadn't gotten "closure.." sticky situation, but no regrets.
as far as legit cheating goes, i have too much of a conscience to actually hurt someone like that and stay with them.
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Carnegie Mellon University
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Posted on
Jul 9, 2008 at 10:56am by
julian
As for myself, I've never cheated or been cheated on, though I was accidentally "the other guy." Ignorance sometimes really is bliss.
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Quoted Text I don't really take any of my relationships seriously anymore and these days I almost feel as though its cheat or be cheated on.
That said I have never actually cheated on anyone. But I HAVE been the "other guy" and I'm not gonna lie, it was fucking awesome and I would totally do it again and fully intend to. Ranks up there in excitement with public sex for sure. I figure if a girl is gonna cheat with someone it might as well be me getting my dick wet.
Your so cocky...
Its not ok cheat. Its not the fact of the act of doing it but the emotional strain that it has not just on yourself or your partner. Most people who cheat are dumb in the first place. A lot of people end up giving their partners a disease because they felt like they "needed" to cheat. I have to admit everyone has temptations and deserve was free pass. Your human and can't help on what you feel. But if you really feel the need to "cheat" than you need to look back at yourself to see whats wrong with you and why you need to do it.
Yes being the other person is "awesome" until you get strung along into their drama....
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Western Washington University
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Posted on
Jul 9, 2008 at 11:59am by
bethanyc
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University of California-Santa Barbara
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Cheating is never okay... where's the morals?!??!?
Just break up with your highschool sweetheart if you want to play the field.
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There is nothing wrong with testing the waters
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Texas State University-San Marcos
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Posted on
Jul 10, 2008 at 6:50am by
Bolix
Quoted Text Your so cocky...
Its not ok cheat. Its not the fact of the act of doing it but the emotional strain that it has not just on yourself or your partner. Most people who cheat are dumb in the first place. A lot of people end up giving their partners a disease because they felt like they "needed" to cheat. I have to admit everyone has temptations and deserve was free pass. Your human and can't help on what you feel. But if you really feel the need to "cheat" than you need to look back at yourself to see whats wrong with you and why you need to do it.
Yes being the other person is "awesome" until you get strung along into their drama....
No emotional strain for me. I know I'm not going to marry these girls so it IS going to end one way or another... so no sense in stringing it about any longer than necessary. And I don't feel like I "need" to cheat... I just don't have any qualms about it when opportunity presents itself, that's all. Not really worried about diseases because I ALWAYS wrap it up, always.
I know I'm not alone here but drama is entertaining. It might piss you off or get annoying or wear you down, but you know what? I'd take that over being bored any day. As someone said before, happy relationships are boring.
Oh and it's "you're."
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